Wednesday, July 31, 2024

And the Heavens Opened Up

 


It was a typical Tuesday morning at the Appalachian String Band Music Festival, the kind of day when the only thing more unpredictable than the music was the weather. As the morning sun peeked over the mountaintop, vendors set up their stands, and campers wiped the sleep from their eyes, an ominous cloud began to creep across the sky. By 8:30, just as folks were finishing their breakfast biscuits, the heavens opened up and delivered a downpour so heavy it seemed as if the mountain itself was taking a shower.

The rain came down in sheets, drenching everything and everyone in its path. Umbrellas popped open like wildflowers, tarps flapped, and people went on their way despite the wind and rain. Despite the deluge, there was an undeniable sense of excitement in the air, as if everyone knew they were in for one heck of a story to tell back home. It wasn't long before the ground turned into a muddy dance floor, perfect for a little spontaneous splashing and sliding.



Under our canopy, a motley crew of musicians gathered, determined to keep the spirit of the festival alive. There was me, with my trusty dulcimer, and two fiddle players who looked like they had walked straight out of a 19th-century barn dance. A banjo player, whose instrument seemed more waterproof than the rest of us, was already tuning up, and a guitar player sat on a folding chair, ready to strum away. Our instruments may have been as wet as a cat in a rainstorm, but our spirits were as high as the mountain top.

As we struck up our first tune, the sound of "Old Joe Clark" filled the air. The fiddlers' bows danced across the strings, the banjo plinked happily, and the guitar's warm chords provided a solid foundation. My dulcimer rang out sweetly, despite the occasional raindrop that splashed onto the strings. We played through a medley of lively fiddle tunes, all in the key of G (it’s a banjo thing), which seemed to resonate with the sound of the raindrops.

The crowd gathered round the tent, some standing in their rain-soaked clothes. Instead of frowns and grumbles, there were laughter and cheers. A few brave souls danced in the mud, their bare feet squelching with every step. Kids jumped in puddles, creating little geysers of water that mirrored the joy on their faces. It was clear that a little rain wasn't going to dampen the festival spirit.

Between songs, the banjo player shared a joke that had everyone roaring with laughter. "You know what happens when you drop a banjo down a well?" he asked, pausing for effect. "You get a D-tuner!" It was a classic, and in the moment, it was the perfect icebreaker.

We played on, the music mingling with the sound of rain on canvas and the occasional roll of thunder in the distance. The tunes ranged from fast-paced reels to slow, haunting ballads, each one met with applause and shouts of appreciation. As we wrapped up with "Barlow Knife," the sun began to peek out from behind the clouds, casting a golden glow over the soggy scene.

The rain may have soaked our clothes and muddied our feet, but it couldn't wash away the joy and camaraderie that filled the festival. As we packed up our instruments, someone shouted, "Let's do it all again tomorrow, rain or shine!" And that was the spirit of the Appalachian String Festival—come what may, the music and the fun would go on.

So, we left the stage, dripping but happy, ready to dry off and swap stories about the unforgettable Tuesday when the rain tried to steal the show, but the music and laughter won the day. It was a day to remember, a day when even the wettest of festivals proved that a little water couldn't put out the fire of good music and good company.



Monday, July 29, 2024

On the Road to Clifftop




The journey to Clifftop, West Virginia, feels like stepping into a time capsule. As the truck wound its way through the serpentine roads, memories of my childhood in the 1970s flooded back; these are the roads I learned how to drive on and gave me my first driver’s license. The landscape is timeless, a mosaic of rolling hills, dense forests, and the occasional clapboard house standing sentinel. The scent of pine mixed with the summer's warmth, and I felt the familiar thrill of returning to my roots. My father’s ancestral home is about 35-40 miles due north of here on Crites Mountain near Little Birch. 



Arriving at the site of the annual Appalachian String Band Festival at Camp Washington Carver, I was greeted by a vibrant tapestry of tents, scattered like wildflowers throughout the wooded glades. Each tent has its own story, some adorned with colorful flags, others modest and utilitarian, one had two skeletons dressed in fall clothing holding makeshift instruments, but all sharing a common purpose: to celebrate the rich heritage of Appalachian music and culture. The air was alive with the joyous sounds of fiddles, banjos, guitars, and dulcimers, harmonizing with the nocturnal insects that buzzed and chirped in the background. It was a symphony that transcended time, connecting generations through a shared love of music.



As dusk settled, the sky transformed into a canvas of stars, each one twinkling like a distant ember. The campgrounds were illuminated by the warm glow of solar lights (no fires are allowed here - West Virginia governor Jim Justice declared a statewide drought today), where small groups gathered, their laughter and chatter blending with the music. It was a magical scene, reminiscent of the star-filled nights of my youth, where the only entertainment was the company of friends and family along with the stories we spun.

At the heart of this gathering stands the iconic Camp Washington Carver lodge. Built in 1942, this historic structure was the first 4-H camp for African-American youth in the United States. Its construction was and is a monumental achievement, a testament to the resilience and dedication of the community. The lodge, made of locally sourced timber and stone, exude a rustic charm. Its large, inviting porch wrapped around the building, offering a perfect vantage point to take in the surrounding beauty.



Inside, the lodge is a warm and welcoming space, with wooden beams crisscrossing the high ceilings and a large stone fireplace dominating one wall. The floorboards creak with every step, telling tales of the countless feet that had walked them over the decades. Walls adorned with photographs and memorabilia paid homage to the camp's rich history and the many lives it had touched.

The lodge is not just a building; it is a symbol of the strength and unity of the community. Built during a time of segregation, it provided a space where African-American children could learn, grow, and connect with their heritage. Today, it stands as a reminder of the progress made and the importance of preserving cultural traditions.

As the night deepened, I joined a group of musicians on the lodge's porch. The music flowed effortlessly, each tune a thread in the rich tapestry of Appalachian folk traditions. I felt a deep connection to this place and these people, bound together by the shared rhythms of life. The stars above seemed to dance to the music, a celestial audience to our humble performance.

In that moment, under the canopy of stars, surrounded by the timeless music of the mountains, I feel a profound sense of belonging. The winding roads, the bustling tents, the lodge with its storied past—all of it converged into a singular experience of joy and nostalgia. The festival is not just an event; it is a homecoming for musicians and people far and wide. A celebration of roots and traditions that have withstood the test of time. 

It’s close to midnight as I write tonight, and the sounds of the musical jams continue. Eventually, they will lull me into a deep, peaceful rest, cradled by the mountains that I have always loved.


Here's some more information on the camp:

https://wvtourism.com/company/camp-washington-carver/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camp_Washington-Carver_Complex



Monday, July 8, 2024

Welcome to Grandparenting 101: Meet Dot, Our Little Dynamo


Greetings, fellow adventurers in grandparenting! Mackie and I are overjoyed to introduce you to our seven-month-old granddaughter, Dorothy, or as we affectionately call her, Dot. She’s a tiny tornado of energy, curiosity, and joy, keeping us on our toes from sunrise to sunset. Here’s a peek into our journey of getting to know Dot and keeping her entertained in two-minute intervals.

The Dot Chronicles: Two-Minute Entertainment Extravaganza

Dot’s attention span is, well, let’s just say it’s like a goldfish on espresso. Every two minutes, she demands a new source of wonder and amusement. Mackie has become master improvisers, finding endless ways to keep her entertained. Here’s a rundown of our most successful tactics:

  1. The Magic Spoon Show: It turns out, a simple kitchen spoon can become a wand, a drumstick, or even a microphone. Mackie and I have perfected our spoon duet, complete with silly faces and sound effects. Dot’s giggles are worth every ridiculous moment.

  2. Peekaboo Marathon: Who knew that hiding behind a cushion and popping out with a “boo!” could be the height of comedy? Dot’s squeals of delight fuel our endless peekaboo sessions. We’ve even developed signature moves, like the “double peek” and the “surprise side peek.”

  3. Toy Rotation Circus: Dot’s toy collection is a treasure trove of distractions. We rotate them every few minutes to keep the novelty alive. There’s Dorothy the Dinosaur, Leonard the Lion, and the ever-fascinating wooden rubber teether thing-a-ma-jig. The secret is in the element of surprise – pulling out a “new” toy from behind our backs is like a magic trick that never gets old.

  4. Baby Dance Party: The living room has turned into a mini dance club. Mackie’s got the moves, and I’ve got the tunes. We dance to everything from nursery rhymes to classic rock. Dot’s favorite? The hokey pokey, of course. She wiggles, claps, and babbles along, making us feel like rockstar grandparents.

  5. Nature Explorer Adventures: Taking Dot outside is a sensory extravaganza. We stroll through the garden, pointing out flowers, birds, and the occasional squirrel. Every leaf is a marvel, every breeze a thrill. It’s like seeing the world for the first time through her eyes.

Napping: The Elusive Quest

Now, about that nap… Dot’s energy seems boundless, but Mackie and I? Not so much. We’ve turned napping into an art form, squeezing in catnaps whenever possible. Our strategy? Take shifts. While one of us entertains Dot, the other sneaks in a quick snooze. We’ve even mastered the “grandparent lean” – a subtle rest while sitting upright. It’s all about survival, folks.

The Joy of Discovery

Despite the whirlwind of activity, the most rewarding part is watching Dot discover the world. Her eyes light up with every new experience, and her laughter is infectious. She’s teaching us to appreciate the small moments and find joy in the simplest things.

Lessons Learned and Laughs Shared

Grandparenting Dot has been a crash course in creativity, patience, and humor. We’ve learned that it’s okay to be silly, that every moment is precious, and that love comes in the form of endless games of peekaboo. It’s a rollercoaster ride we wouldn’t trade for anything.

So, to all the grandparents out there, embrace the chaos, cherish the giggles, and remember – when in doubt, just pull out a spoon and dance. Here’s to making memories, one two-minute block at a time.

Saturday, July 6, 2024

Can One have Too Many Hobbies?

 So, you've finally retired. You thought you’d be lounging in a hammock, sipping lemonade, and finally getting around to that stack of books. But instead, you’re busier than a bee in a flower shop. Welcome to the world of having too many retirement hobbies! We've all heard the adage, "I don't know how I had time to work," and now you're living it. Let's dive into the chaos, shall we?

Card Game Conundrums

First up, card games. Who knew that rummy, canasta, pinocle, poker, and bridge could consume so much of your time? You used to play a friendly game now and then, but now it’s serious business. Your calendar is packed with game nights, strategy sessions, and the occasional spat over whether or not someone is cheating. Bridge, in particular, can get intense. The strategy, the suspense, the adult beverages—oh my! You need a nap just thinking about it.

Sporting Shenanigans

Next, let's talk sports. We have pickleball, tennis, shuffleboard, corn hole, and ping pong. Sure, you might be a bit overweight and more fake hips and knees than the six million dollar man. Then there's a few aches and pains, but that doesn't stop you from diving into these activities with the enthusiasm of a teenager. Thank God Algadones is a short drive from Yuma. Pickleball has become a retirement favorite, but who knew it involved so much running? And don't get me started on competitive lawn darts—the ones with the metal tips. It's like living on the edge, but without the cliff. Just be sure to watch your step, and maybe wear a helmet.

Green Thumb Madness

Gardening seems like a peaceful hobby, right? Wrong. It starts with a few pots of tomatoes and herbs, and before you know it, you're knee-deep in compost, battling weeds like a gladiator. Every trip to the garden center turns into an epic adventure. Need a new trowel? Better clear your afternoon. And let’s not forget about the garden gnome collection that seems to be multiplying faster than the weeds. It's a jungle out there.

The Foodie Frenzy

Becoming a foodie is another popular retirement pastime. You start with a simple interest in cooking and eating well. Next thing you know, you're attending cooking classes, hosting elaborate dinner parties, and embarking on culinary tours. Your pantry is now a gourmet haven, and your friends are starting to suspect you're auditioning for a cooking show. Don’t even think about showing up to the senior potluck without your famous quinoa salad.

Then we've got Saturday breakfast in our ballroom, lunch on the patio listening to our local celebrity bands, and the monthly spaghetti feed is always a big hit.

The Arts and Crafts Avalanche

Arts and crafts can be a delightful way to spend your time, but it's easy to get carried away. One moment, you're knitting a scarf, and the next, you’re up to your elbows in yarn, glue, and glitter. Your home resembles an art supply store, and you're contemplating taking up pottery, because why not? The craft store employees know you by name, and you’ve seriously considered converting your garage into an art studio.

Musical Mayhem

Remember that old guitar in the attic? Well, now that you have time, you decide to give it a go. Fast forward a few months, and you've joined a seniors’ rock band. Rehearsals, gigs, and trying to remember the chords—it’s a full-time job. And if you're not in a band, maybe you’re part of the community choir. Those weekly practices and performances keep you hopping, and let’s not forget the karaoke nights. Yes, you’ve got the moves like Jagger.

Travel Adventures

Then there’s travel. With all these senior discounts and travel clubs, you’re rarely at home. From cruises to cross-country road trips, you're always packing and unpacking. National parks, historic sites, and exotic destinations fill your itinerary. Your friends joke that you should start a travel blog, but who has the time?

Embrace the Chaos

Retirement is a time of boundless opportunities and, apparently, endless activities. The days of lounging are long gone, replaced by a whirlwind of hobbies and adventures. You thought you’d be bored, but now you’re busier than ever, and loving every minute of it. So embrace the chaos, relish the variety, and keep those hobbies coming. After all, you’ve earned it.

Wednesday, July 3, 2024

Senior Discounts: The Secret Perk of Aging


Retirement is that wonderful time when you get to enjoy life at a leisurely pace, spend more time with grandkids, and, most importantly, take full advantage of senior discounts. If you're not making the most of these perks, you're missing out on a world of savings. Here’s your ultimate guide to snagging the best deals and having a blast while you do it.

Taco Tuesday

Let's start with Taco Tuesday. If you find yourself in Yuma, Arizona, make a beeline for Del Taco. With senior discounts and their famous Taco Tuesday specials, you can feast like a king without breaking the bank. Or better yet. Head over to Westwind Bar & Grill, where you can enjoy soft or crunchy flour or corn tacos from 3 PM to 8 PM every Tuesday. And drinks are half price before 5! Chicken or beef are $1.50 each and shrimp go for $3.00. I'm hungry already.

Golden Corral: The Early Bird Bonanza

Next up, the Golden Corral Early Bird Special. Picture this: a delightful dinner spread with all your favorites. The best part? Watching savvy senior ladies stroll in with those extra-large purses. Fried chicken? Check. Mashed potatoes? Check. Enough napkins to last a lifetime? Double check. It’s not just a meal; it’s a strategy session for maximizing your take-home goodies.

Thrift Store Thursdays

On Thursdays, Goodwill becomes the hotspot for thrifty seniors. With a 20% discount, you can update your wardrobe, find that perfect knick-knack, or simply enjoy the thrill of the hunt. Pro tip: Show up early to snag the best deals before the rest of the savvy seniors beat you to it.

Fry’s Grocery Delight

Every first Wednesday of the month, Fry's Food Stores roll out the red carpet for seniors with a 10% discount. It’s the perfect time to stock up on all your essentials and maybe even treat yourself to something special. Don't forget the shopping cart derby on aisle 5 that starts at 4:10. Who knew grocery shopping could be so exhilarating?

Entertainment on a Dime

Now, let’s talk entertainment. Many theaters offer senior discounts on movies, but watch out for the popcorn —it’s a sneaky way to eat into your savings. But don’t fret; you can still enjoy the latest blockbuster without going broke. And for those cultural days, check out the local free museums. It’s a fantastic way to spend an afternoon learning something new without spending a dime. Or, take a walk in the park and gaze at the beautiful landscape and those pigeons... Bonus points for getting some exercise too. Just be careful of which bench you take a nap at.

Travel Perks and Silver Sneakers

When it comes to travel, the National Park Service Senior Lifetime Pass is a game-changer. For a one-time fee, you get access to all national parks for life. Talk about a ticket to adventure! Plus, many hotels offer senior discounts, so you can rest easy without worrying about the cost.

And let’s not forget about staying active. Medicare benefits like Silver Sneakers give you access to countless gyms and fitness programs. So, whether you’re a yoga enthusiast or prefer water aerobics, there’s something for everyone.

Embrace the Discount Life

Being a senior has its perks, and senior discounts are just the tip of the iceberg. From Taco Tuesdays and thrift store treasures to movie deals and national park passes, there’s a whole world of savings out there. So, grab your largest purse, your grocery list, and your sense of adventure, and start living large on less. After all, you’ve earned it!

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